#WATWB: The Woman Who Fought Off Three Rapists

Posted: 2019/06/01 in Blogging
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This is the heartfelt and heartwarming story of a woman forced to defend her daughter (and herself) from three rapists in the middle of the night.

Back in 2017, a South African woman named Nokubonga Qampi received a phone call in the middle of the night telling her that her daughter was being raped by three men. Her daugher, Siphokazi, had been visiting her friends who went out at 1.30am and left her alone and asleep. Sometime later, three men she knew well, who had been drinking nearby, attacked her.

Nokubonga’s first response was to call the police, but there was no answer. She knew, anyway, that it would take them time to reach her village, in the rolling green and brown hills of South Africa’s Eastern Cape province.

She was the only person that could help.

“I was scared, but then I was forced to go because it was my daughter,” she said.

“I was thinking that when I get there, she might be dead… Because she knew the perpetrators, and because they knew her and knew she knows them, they might think they had to kill her so she couldn’t report them.”

“I took it for me, for walking the distance between here and where the incident was taking place, because it is not safe,” she says. “It was dark and I had to use the torch on my phone to light the way.”

She heard her daughter’s screams as she approached the house. On entering the bedroom, the light from her phone enabled her to make out the awful sight of her daughter being raped.

“I was scared… I just stood by the door and asked what they were doing. When they saw it was me, they came charging towards me, that’s when I thought that I needed to defend myself, it was an automatic reaction,” Nokubonga says.

The rest of Nokubonga’s story can be found here. BBC podcast can be found here.

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Siphokazi and Nokubonga in January, 16 months after the attack. BBC photo.

This is the 24th celebration of the WE ARE THE WORLD BLOGFEST #WATWB which is carried out every last Friday of the month, and which aims to spread love and positiveness in this vulnerable world. A celebration of heroes who can still restore our faith in humanity, especially in this period when our world seems to be full of endless series of horrible happenings.

Our generous co-hosts for this month are: Shilpa Garg, Dan AntionMary GieseSimon Falk , Damyanti Biswas.

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Comments
  1. Dan Antion says:

    Thanks Peter for bringing us the story of courage and justice. We know that all too often, they don’t go together. It was very good to see that this time, it did. Thank you for supporting WATWB

    • Peter Nena says:

      Thank you Dan. A mother’s love is still the strongest bond. She had to choose between her life and that of her daughter’s. She chose her daughter’s, risking the night and confronting the three men to save the child. I am happy that justice was done.

  2. Stories like this need to be told, and told again. Thanks for sharing this, Peter.

  3. So strong, such courage, thank you for sharing this story. ^_^

  4. Susan Scott says:

    I remember the story well Peter, I live in SA. Rape-such a heinous crime. Nokubonga Qampi is a brave woman indeed. The government has recently been reconfigured and rape and abuse against women will hopefully get the attention it deserves..

    • Peter Nena says:

      Thank you Susan. It is a touching story. At the end there was justice and that made me glad. I hope the new government will help protect people against abuse and rape.

  5. dweezer19 says:

    Strong women are fiercely loyal and protective. The best kinds of heroes and Warriors.

  6. Peter, I always love a story of a strong woman and thank you so much for adding your drop of light to the pool of light. It’s getting bigger!!

  7. Kalpana says:

    I’m so glad this story had a happy ending thanks to the mother’s bravery and public support.

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